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How Do I Grow as a Christian?

When you put your faith in Jesus, God begins a lifelong work of transforming you. The Bible urges you to “grow” in many ways, to pursue transformation, confident that God is at work behind the scenes empowering you to change. This growth process is called “sanctification” in the Bible, and it’s a word that means “to be made holy.” God aims to make you look more like Jesus and for your relationship with Jesus to deepen, such that Jesus’ glory shines through every area of your life.

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Two Words to Help You When You’re Struggling with Guilt

Have you ever done something wrong that you later regretted? Perhaps you have lied to your parents or taken something that wasn’t yours. Maybe you’ve treated others rudely or spoken about people you don’t like with slanderous intent. Is there anybody on the planet who hasn’t violated their own conscience or broken a law or rule?

Consequently, people live with varying degrees of regret, shame, and guilt over their past actions, knowing they have no ability to atone for them or make them right. Lying, stealing, slander, murder: These all happen daily in any given society. Hidden hatred, racism, greed, and envy are staples of human civilization. We covet what others have, and we take what we don’t own. Some people cheat on their taxes; others plagiarize from books or music. The list of our sins goes on and on.

Guilt is a universal problem for humanity. It exists in all places and at all times of history. No one can claim moral perfection. Every human being has participated, in some way, in corrupt behavior. The beauty of the Bible is that it doesn’t sugarcoat the misdeeds that humans have been committing since the dawn of time. Nor does it merely describe and then condemn those transgressions. It also provides a solution to our guilt.

Two Long Words to Help You When You're Struggling With Guilt

If you find yourself feeling guilt or shame over your past actions, we hope this article comforts you by explaining what God has done to deal with your guilt. To explain this, we will introduce you to two important biblical words: justification and sanctification.

For many people, reading the Bible is difficult because it uses words we don’t use in everyday language, and at Bibles.net, we want to make the Bible clear and understandable for people who might not regularly read or study it. Many Bible words are wonderfully meaningful: Though they may be foreign to us, they have everything to do with our life and experience with God.

What Is Justification?

Let’s tackle the word justification first. Maybe you’ve heard someone say, “Jesus died for my sins.” Essentially, that is what justification means—Jesus, the Son of God, died a substitutionary death for your sin, being condemned in your place, so that if you trust in him, you might stand righteous and free of guilt before God.

Although this concept may initially make sense, the overall concept may still be confusing. So, let’s go back to where the Bible begins its story of humanity and our relationship with God, in the book of Genesis.

Where Did Sin and Guilt Begin?

God made the first man and woman, Adam and Eve, who were the parents of the human race, and put them in a paradise called the Garden of Eden. They were created in God's image, to represent him in the world and rule over his world and to have a relationship with him. God gave them freedom to enjoy all his creation and one command: Do not eat the fruit of a particular tree in the Garden of Eden (Genesis 2:16-17).

Unfortunately, as Genesis describes, they both ate this forbidden fruit (Genesis 3). Consequently, God banished Adam and Eve from the Garden and cursed them for breaking his command, which he warned beforehand he would do if they disobeyed him. This first act of disobedience resulted in both spiritual and, eventually, physical death, and not just for Adam and Eve, but for every person who would come after them as well.

This is why the Bible says that “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23 ESV) and that the “wages of sin is death” (Romans 6:23 ESV).

This is where we are first introduced to the biblical concept of sin. Sin is anything done in violation of God’s will. For Adam and Eve, it was as simple as eating a piece of forbidden fruit, because in so doing, they doubted God’s goodness toward them and shirked his authority. This made them sinners in God’s eyes, and their sin damaged their relationship with him.

How Has God Dealt With Our Sin?

The same situation happens in every one of our lives, in varied forms. Each time we’ve made choices contrary to God’s will as revealed in the Bible, we sin and are subject to the same penalty that Adam and Eve suffered, which is ultimately death.

As you read this, you might be thinking, “But I thought you said this article was meant to provide comfort?!” The wonderful news is that God didn’t leave us in this lost state. He sent his Son, Jesus, who lived a perfectly righteous life—without sin or any disobedience against God—and then gave himself as a substitute for all who have faith in him. He took the penalty of death that we deserve upon himself in his death on a cross.

Above we quoted from Romans 6:23, but here’s the complete verse: “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 6:23 ESV). Incredibly, God offers forgiveness for all our sins through Jesus! And he does it graciously, as a gift. It isn’t something we work for or earn, as if we could. Rather, we simply must trust in Jesus and receive the gift of salvation he freely offers each one of us.

How Can I Be Justified?

Being forgiven by God and made right in God’s eyes is what the Bible calls justification. It is why the Bible teaches that “a person is justified by faith” (Romans 3:28 NIV). By believing in Jesus, we are justified, or made right in God’s perspective, and he no longer holds our sins against us.

So what do we do with our burden of guilt? We run to Jesus! We confess to him that we are sinners in need of the salvation he freely offers, and we receive. We trust that Jesus’ sacrifice atoned for all our sins, and now, because of what he has done for us, we stand faultless before God, clothed in Jesus’ own righteousness, which he gives us as a gift.

However, God doesn’t justify us and leave us as we are. He then begins doing a wonderful work in our lives to sanctify us.

What Is Sanctification?

Our second word, sanctification, is a bit easier to grasp. Think of a piece of gold rock that is mined from the ground. In order for that gold to become usable for money or jewelry, it must be refined, usually through a process of melting and re-melting the rock. Through each stage of purification, the gold becomes cleaner and cleaner of impurities as they float to the top of the molten gold, becoming dross or slag that is then scraped off. Eventually we can produce a piece of gold that is 99.99% pure.

The biblical concept of sanctification is similar, but instead of refining gold, God is refining our hearts. For all those who put their trust and hope in Jesus (who are justified), God gives us his Holy Spirit. This Spirit lives in us, helping us make choices that are pleasing to God. We become increasingly capable of saying no to sin. Our minds, hearts, and actions become purer. In all these ways, God is making us “holy,” which means less sinful, and more devoted to him. To “sanctify” means to make holy.

What Is the Goal of Sanctification?

What is the end result of holiness? That we are morally perfect? No, not merely that we are good for goodness’ sake. The goal of our sanctification is that we resemble our God. Ultimately, as followers of Jesus, God’s Spirit is working to make us more like him. This sanctification process is described by the apostle Paul in this way: “For those whom he [God] foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that we might be the firstborn among many brothers” (Romans 8:29 ESV, emphasis added).

In other words, God determined to work in those who put their trust in him in such a way that they grow to look more and more like Jesus. The sanctification process is not just us becoming less sinful; it’s a process of us becoming more like our Savior.

God doesn’t just scrub us clean of sin. He also makes us productive. Not only are our sins forgiven (justification), but now we can do good (sanctification)! God aims to produce the “fruit” that comes from his own Spirit in our lives (Galatians 5:22–23): love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. God aims increasingly to fill us with the fruit of his Spirit. God also has prepared good works for each of us, that each follower of Christ may individually and uniquely reveal him to the world: “For we are his [God’s] workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them” (Ephesians 2:10 ESV).

Freedom from Guilt and Shame

The beauty of justification and sanctification is that we no longer need to wrestle with feelings of guilt or shame over our past sins. Because of God’s sacrifice of his Son, we can receive total forgiveness for our sins—past, present, and future—and enter a once-and-for-all reconciled relationship with God. Plus, God grants us new life through his Spirit and is at work within us to change us, giving us the ability to do good, productive works that are pleasing to him.

So, if you find yourself wrestling with feelings of guilt over past actions, God offers you freedom through Jesus. Even now, you can pray to God that he would forgive you of your sins and remold you into a person who becomes increasingly like Jesus.

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And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.

Philippians 1:6 NLT

What Is Sanctification?
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Sanctification

Sanctification: a big word for the little-by-little progress of the everyday Christian life.
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What Is Sanctification?

Sanctification is that inward spiritual work which the Lord Jesus Christ works in a man by the Holy Spirit, when he calls him to be a true believer. He not only washes him from his sins in his own blood, but he also separates him from his natural love of sin and the world, puts a new principle in his heart, and makes him practically godly in life. The instrument by which the Spirit affects this work is generally the Word of God, though he sometimes uses afflictions and providential visitations...

By J.C. Ryle
Source Holiness
Messages: 48 Min

The Way We Change

by J.D. Greear

In John 15, Jesus tells us what true spiritual change is, what it means to abide, and how we grow in our relationship with God.
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Romans 8:29-30 NLT

For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son, so that his Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And having chosen them, he called them to come to him. And having called them, he gave them right standing with himself. And having given them right standing, he gave them his glory.

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What Does God Hope to Accomplish in My Life?

If you ask yourself the question if you are a believer, What is God doing with me?, the answer is actually very simple and very plain, and it is true for every single one of us in Christ: God is seeking, by the power of the Holy Spirit, to make us more like his Son Jesus.

by Alistair Begg
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God’s Work of Sanctification

This is a wonderful introduction to the subject of sanctification, and the change God is bringing about in our lives.
by Gavin Ortlund, 50 Min
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Sanctification
is the meeting of
the human condition
in all its
complications
with the Savior
of the world
in all his truth
and mercy.

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What does it mean to grow in holiness, and would I really want to?

The words sanctification, saint, holy, and holiness frequently conjure up a variety of odd, hyper-spiritual images. But these words intend to communicate earthy, practical realities. To be sanctified is to have your faith simplified, clarified, and deepened. You need God. You know God. You love God. You see life, God, yourself, others more truly. And to grow as a saint is to grow in actually loving people. How other people are doing matters increasingly to you. You care. You help. Becoming more holy does not mean that you become ethereal, ghostly, and detached from the storms of life. It means you are becoming a wiser human being. You are learning how to deal well with your money, your sexuality, your job. You are becoming a better friend and family member. When you talk, your words communicate more good sense, more gravitas, more joy, more reality. You are learning to pray honestly, bringing who God really is to the reality of human need. And to grow in holiness does not mean you now talk in hushed tones and every third sentence quotes the Bible. It means you live in more clear-minded hope. You know the purpose of your life, roll up your sleeves, and get about doing what needs doing. You are honestly thankful for good things. You honestly face disappointment and pain, illness and dying. Sanctification, saint, holy, and holiness—they speak of daily life. There is nothing more practical than to live with an ever-growing love, joy, and purposefulness. There is nothing more eyes-open and helpful than to be maturing in wisdom, hope, and faith.

by David Powlison
Source
Article: 9 Min

God Is Changing Us—But How?

It is so important to recognize that that sanctification does not look the same in every Christian’s experience.

by David Powlison at CCEF
Verse
2 Corinthians 3:18 ESV

And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.

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Make Me New

by Ashley Hess
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Making Me Over

by Json feat. AD3 & Tedashii
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God Intimately Works to Transform You Because He Loves You

We are, not metaphorically but in very truth, a Divine work of art, something that God is making, and therefore something with which he will not be satisfied until it has a certain character. Here again we come up against what I have called the “intolerable compliment.” Over a sketch made idly to amuse a child, an artist may not take much trouble: he may be content to let it go even though it is not exactly as he meant it to be. But over the great picture of his life—the work which he loves, though in a different fashion, as intensely as a man loves a woman or a mother a child—he will take endless trouble—and would, doubtless, thereby, give endless trouble to the picture if it were sentient. One can imagine a sentient picture, after being rubbed and scraped and re-commenced for the tenth time, wishing that it were only a thumb-nail sketch whose making was over in a minute. In the same way, it is natural for us to wish that God had designed for us a less glorious and less arduous destiny; but then we are wishing not for more love but for less.

by C.S. Lewis
Source
How Do I Change?
Messages: 52 Min

How Can I Do All of This?

by Marquise Cox

This message says something essential to us about sanctification—that our growth in our faith comes by depending on the Holy Spirit to produce change in us and to call us to obedience to Christ.
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Holiness 
isn’t about
trying to be 
holy,
it’s
about
getting close

to the 
Holy One.

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Philippians 2:12-13 ESV

Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.

Article: 5 Min

Philippians 2 and the Mind-Blowing Mystery of Christian Obedience

Is my change the work of God, or up to me? The Bible says both!

by Justin Dillehay at The Gospel Coalition
Verse
John 17:17 NLT

Make them holy by your truth; teach them your word, which is truth.

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By the Holy Spirit,
God’s Word is the means
by which
God works
to make us
more like Jesus.

Messages: 33 Min

How to Change

by Tim Keller

This message explores the nature, pattern, and process of Christian change, based on what we read about the fruit of the Spirit.
Verse
John 15:1-5 ESV

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit. Already you are clean because of the word that I have spoken to you. Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.

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2 Peter 1:5-8 NLT

In view of all this, make every effort to respond to God’s promises. Supplement your faith with a generous provision of moral excellence, and moral excellence with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with patient endurance, and patient endurance with godliness, and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love for everyone. The more you grow like this, the more productive and useful you will be in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Messages: 41 Min

Everything You Need for Spiritual Growth and Formation

by Drew Hunter

Discover what God gives to us to help us grow, what we do to grow, and why it matters that we grow.
Messages: 37 Min

7 Life Pursuits That Will Help You Be an Effective and Fruitful Follower of Jesus

by Colin Smith

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Refiner's Fire

by The Worship Project feat. Brian Doerksen & TWP Band
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What Are the Two Ways We Grow?

Sanctification consists of two aspects, one negative, the other positive. As for the former aspect, sanctification involves avoiding or ridding oneself of certain sins…Positively, sanctification involves the pursuit of holiness in terms of God-honoring attitudes and actions.

by Gregg R. Allison
Source
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Hebrews 12:1-2 NLT

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Because of the joy awaiting him, he endured the cross, disregarding its shame. Now he is seated in the place of honor beside God’s throne.

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Galatians 2:20 ESV

I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.

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Galatians 5:22-23 NLT

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!

What If I’m Discouraged?
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God Is in the Business of Remodeling Every Follower of Jesus

Imagine yourself as a living house. God comes in to rebuild that house. At first, perhaps, you can understand what He is doing. He is getting the drains right and stopping the leaks in the roof and so on; you knew that those jobs needed doing and so you are not surprised. But presently he starts knocking the house about in a way that hurts abominably and does not seem to make any sense. What on earth is he up to? The explanation is that he is building quite a different house from the one you thought of – throwing out a new wing here, putting on an extra floor there, running up towers, making courtyards. You thought you were being made into a decent little cottage: but he is building a palace. He intends to come and live in it himself.

by C.S. Lewis
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Verse
2 Corinthians 4:16-18 NIV

So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.

Folk | Indie

More and More Beautiful

by Skye Peterson feat. Thomas Austin
Verse
Ephesians 2:10 NLT

For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.

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Do you feel like your growth is slower than you would like?

The Christian seeking God should likewise not grow unduly discouraged when today’s efforts fail to yield immediate fruit. Scripture reading, prayer, fasting, and fellowship are less like the crank of a lever and more like the sowing of a seed. We plant, we water, and then we keep our eyes on the harvest. On the other hand, however, the long view reminds us that today’s small acts of obedience are of the utmost importance. The steps we take today may not take us all the way to glory—true. But we will never reach glory unless we keep stepping.

by Scott Hubbard
Source
Folk | Indie

Fool with a Fancy Guitar

by Andrew Peterson
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How Do I Know God Is Working in Me?

Light may be very dim; but if there is only a spark in a dark room, it will be seen. Life may be very feeble; but if the pulse only beats a little, it will be felt. It is just the same with a sanctified man: his sanctification will be something felt and seen, though he himself may not understand it.

by J.C. Ryle
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