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The content on this page seeks to answer the question, “What makes a man?” according to the Bible. This question arises from the biblical assertion in Genesis 1:27 that God made humanity in his own image, but that he made two kinds of humans—male and female—both to reflect his glory, represent him in the world, and reign over his world in distinct and complimentary ways.
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What does Scripture tell us about what it means to be a man?
The first man had no culture to inform his masculinity and no clothes to distinguish his masculinity—just simply a Creator who designed him to be a man.
Man Is One Essential Portion of God’s Reflected Glory
When God created people, he made them in his image (Genesis 1:27). But God made a unique, wise, and loving choice to diversify his image bearers. He didn’t just make humans. He made two distinct kinds of humans—male and female–in order to fully reflect his image.
Were these two kinds of people identical, there would be no reason for God to explicitly distinguish them: “Male and female he created them.” Scripture then describes the different ways God formed them (Genesis 1:27; Genesis 2:7; Genesis 2:22). Thus, a man, though a person, is something altogether different from woman, though both are created in the very image of God.
What Makes a Man a Man?
So, we wonder, what makes a man a man and not a woman?
Let’s return to creation. God made man and woman, and they were naked and unashamed (Genesis 2:24). By pure observation, male and female anatomy differ, and complement one another to create life. Naked as he was at the first, we learn that man, compared to the woman is strong, designed for hard work. Generally speaking, his frame is larger; his body built a bit tougher.
It is no wonder that God commissions the man to work the ground and keep or “guard” it. In this blessing, God made man responsible over his creation, endowing him with authority.
As the rest of the Bible unfolds, we find that...
Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.
1 Corinthians 16:13-14 ESV
Masculinity finds its definition in God alone—not the world, not culture, not the workplace. He is the One who created men and shows us what true masculinity is in Christ. Ultimately and completely, masculinity is defined by the God who makes men.
By Vince MillerNorman addresses how masculinity is the fruit of the root of Christlikeness, for all men—married and single.
Another way to determine true masculinity is to look to Jesus Christ. He is the perfect example of manhood. He showed us that real men are gentle and tender, especially with women and children. [He showed us it is okay for real men to cry.] He showed us that real men stay under control, but also demonstrate righteous anger. He showed us a real man is concerned with protecting the purity and innocence of others. He showed us a real man has the strength to resist the temptations of the world. He showed us how real men are men who take the initiative. And he showed us that real men are humble when the Lord himself washed the disciples’ feet. Jesus Christ is our example of masculinity. And it is the awareness of our shortcomings in this area that drives us to him for forgiveness and strength to rightly fulfill our responsibilities.
by Randy SmithJesus…is the Lion of Judah (Revelation 5:5) and the Lamb of God (Revelation 5:6)—he was lionhearted and lamblike, strong and meek, tough and tender, aggressive and responsive, bold and brokenhearted. He sets the pattern for manhood.
By John PiperWhen the God of the universe takes on the form of man we are compelled to take notice, repent of indwelling sin, submit to his lordship and seek refuge in the only man that can save us from our sins. Reckoning with Jesus is the first act in redeeming masculinity. He is the epitome and example of biblical manhood and without him we will only distort our God given identity and role. It’s our unapologetic desire that you come face-to-face with the one man who can redeem your masculinity from distortion and transform your life for his glory.
by Randy Stinson & Dan DumasBut Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
Thus says the Lord: “Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the Lord who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the Lord.”
How do we come to an understanding of what masculinity really is? Vince answers this and then gives us nine commitments of real men.
But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses.
This is a humble word of encouragement to other men who may have young children.
When the time drew near for David to die, he gave a charge to Solomon his son.
“I am about to go the way of all the earth,” he said. “So be strong, act like a man, and observe what the Lord your God requires: Walk in obedience to him, and keep his decrees and commands, his laws and regulations, as written in the Law of Moses. Do this so that you may prosper in all you do and wherever you go.”
Rise up, O men of God!
Have done with lesser things.
Give heart and mind and soul and strength
to serve the King of kings.
Rise up, O men of God!
The kingdom tarries long.
Bring in the day of brotherhood
and end the night of wrong.
Rise up, O men of God!
The church for you doth wait,
her strength unequal to her task;
rise up, and make her great!
Lift high the cross of Christ!
Tread where his feet have trod.
As brothers of the Son of Man,
rise up, O men of God!